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Last summer we had an incident that left my oldest daughter, Emma, then four, with a broken elbow and subsequently a full arm hot pink cast right in time for the start of preschool.

And now, as luck would have it, the hot pink cast has returned, the same left full arm cast, this time on my 23-month-old Morgan. How is this possible??

What are the chances that both of them have now broken a bone? It’s crazy.

The good thing about my blog is that when crappy things happen, at least I feel like I can vent and share with you in hopes that you keep it in the back of your mind and maybe I can keep it from happening to someone else.

It happened a few weeks ago on the night of Emma’s birthday. It was ironic, because it was one of those beautiful, perfect days.  Her morning birthday party was a blast, we spent the afternoon swimming, and then went to my parent’s house in the afternoon and had a great celebration dinner with my entire family. I remember sitting at dinner thinking how great the day had been.

It was almost time to go home when Morgan toddled into the kitchen. My husband and I were both still sitting outside and in a split second, she pushed the door out to the garage open with a whole hand (it wasn’t fully shut) near the hinge, and the door closed back and her pinky got shut in the hinge of the door.

It happened so fast.

It started bleeding like crazy and she was screaming and it was AWFUL AWFUL AWFUL. I grabbed a paper towel to hold her finger and try to stop the blood.  I was hoping it was just a cut, but by the way she was screaming and the way it felt, my gut said her finger was badly hurt. It felt weird. Worst feeling ever. I was scared to death the tip of her finger was crushed or broken off.  It was AWFUL!!! When I removed the paper towel, I could see a bad cut, but thank God the finger was still there.

But then I had that moment (not thinking clearly) where I was thinking, do we take her to the ER or is it just a bad cut and not that bad? Don’t you hate that moment of self doubt when you wonder what warrants and trip to the doctor vs. overreacting??

But in my gut I knew she needed to be seen. Quick. All it took was one look by my sister, who is calm in these sorts of situations, and she said, “get in the car and take her to the ER right now.”

So we rushed her to the ER. My poor baby was hysterical, blood everywhere, and I just wanted to take the pain away. I would have done anything to take her pain and make it mine.  Nothing worse than seeing your child hurt.

Long story short, she broke the tip of her pinky finger and had a very bad laceration by her fingernail. They wrapped it up and told us to follow up with our pediatrician on Monday.  After seeing our regular pediatrician and watching it for the week, she then ended up referring us to an orthopedic doctor because it still looked pretty bad.

Luckily it did not turn into an infection. The orthopedic doctor tried to do a type of splint to immobilize it, but it didn’t work because of how small and active she is.  Finally this past week, the orthopedic doctor said we just have to cast the full arm until it heals. It was the only way.

Therefore, the return of the hot pink cast. UGH!

BUT, we are lucky.

I was told she could have amputated her finger (OMG the horror) or permanently lost her fingernail. Which being her left hand (think future wedding ring hand), although cosmetic, would have broken my heart.  She could have had more fingers affected as well, so we are lucky it was just one.  The doctor thinks that her fingernail is OK and that other than a slight permanent bend she will likely have in that finger, she should heal just fine.

Things I have learned:

Watch your kids and their little fingers around doors!!! How many times have you yelled, “watch your fingers!” or “be careful of your fingers!” at your kids when opening or closing doors?

Make sure doors that can be pushed open are all the way closed. This happened because the door was ajar and she could push it open by the hinge.  If she would have had to open it with the handle, her fingers wouldn’t have been near the hinge.

Listen to your gut. With an injury, if your gut tells you they need to be seen, just go.

Teach your kids that doors can be dangerous and don’t allow them to ever slam doors.

I hope this never happens to your kids!! It has been a royal pain in the boo-tay. Emma’s broken arm at her age was not that big of a deal, but at 23-months, having a cast has been much harder.  She is a trooper, but we are banned from sand and parks and water for now which has been HARD this time of year!  But we will survive, and as I always say, things could always be worse.

BUT, watch those little fingers mamas!!!!

xoxo

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  1. 1
    Megan says:

    OH NO!!!!!! Poor baby! It was bad enough have a 3 year old in a cast can’t imagine a not even 2 year old. We are thikning of you guys and hope that she doesn’t have to have it on that long. At least in both scrap books you can have pictures of each of them with their hot pink cast. Hugs to you to mama, always so much harder on us then it is on them. Poor sweet Morgan! Like my Dr said when Cooper broke his arm, most kids break a bone before the age of 4….

    • 2
      Jen says:

      I never would have believed that statistic, but now I am living proof!!!

  2. 3
    Michelle Nelson says:

    Poor baby! I’m glad it looks like it will heal okay, though. Believe it or not, Deborah did something similar to this to Laura when they were very young, I think 3 and 1. Laura was chasing Deborah around the house, Deborah ran into a room and slammed the door. . .right on Laura’s finger! Good news is she’s fine and I don’t think anyone could even see that it had happened. (She could probably show you where, though! Sisters can do those things.)

    Anyway, take heart. It can happen to anyone. Gotta love this thing called “Motherhood!”

    • 4
      Jen says:

      I too have been worried about my girls chasing each other and slamming doors – from now on it is going to be a big NO NO in this family! I had no idea the damage a door could do :(.

  3. 5
    MRML says:

    first thought: THANK GOODNESS IT WASN’T WORSE

    I could sooo feel your panic, fear, hysteria. My mind has even gone through the EXACT same thought process where you think, “I don’t want to be one of those over-reacting types of moms – is this a call 911 moment? a drive to the ER moment?” I’m calm with other kids’ injuries (am a teacher,) but not my own.
    and how blessed you are to have such a great family and dear sister.
    These things just happen so quickly.
    Your daughters are beautiful by the way.

    • 6
      Jen says:

      That is so sweet, thank you….and I guess my new motto is “whenever in doubt about an injury – just go!” better safe than sorry!

  4. 7
    Michelle Cappell says:

    oh no poor baby..and poor mama! The Bright Red cast (think spiderman) made an appearance in our house last summer and it was awful! Hoping it heals soon and she doesn’t have to be in it for long.

    • 8
      Jen says:

      I was actually thinking bright red might have been good for the 4th of July, but big sis protested and insisted on the hot pink!

  5. 9
    nicole says:

    Oh, no! Poor her, and you! It’s such an awful feeling when the little ones we love so much are hurting! I hope the cast doesn’t have to be on too long….good luck!

    • 10
      Jen says:

      Thank you so much…

  6. 11
    Michelle says:

    Poor little Morgan!! This story turned my stomach because almost the same thing happened to Ali when she was almost two. Only it was her older brother who slammed the door not seeing her finger in the hindg. She almost lost the in tire tip of her pinky finger. They stitched it back on and she did eventually loose the nail but it grew back slowly. Now five years later you can only see a tiny little scar that she only looks at when she wants to remind her brother about what he did. When your kids get hurt it is the worst. We would do anything to take their pain and discomfort away. My three older kids have had stitches, casts, and many trips to ER and I still consider myself a protective good mom. It’s part of raising active kids. Now that baby Charlie is on the move I’ll do anything to keep him safe. In the long run it makes them
    strong and leads to great family stories.

    • 12
      Jen says:

      Oh that is awful, but I am so glad she was OK!!! I thought she lost the tip too…Same thing, I think of myself as a protective mom, which is why it is so hard when these things happen. I guess that’s why they call them accidents.

  7. 13
    jolie says:

    I know it’s an inappropriate time to say so but isn’t that just the prettiest little pink casted ponum you’ve ever laid eyes on?

    She will be ok, because she has you as a mom. Thanks for sharing, as always.

    • 14
      Jen says:

      Thank you so much friend…XOXO

  8. 15
    Kim says:

    I am so glad that Morgan is okay! I appreciate your sharing these moments with us, Jen. Mia just gave me a scare the other day when I had my eyes off her for 2 seconds. Motherhood is unrelenting- wonderful, but unrelenting- and the stories we share with each other make us better moms. Wishing you & your family a safe, healthy & happy summer!

    • 16
      Jen says:

      Thank you for the comment…it is seriously unrelenting! They always keep us on our toes!!

  9. 17
    Melissa says:

    So sorry! I am glad little Morgan is ok but I feel for you! Hang in there…poor baby girl!

  10. 18
    k says:

    my daughter had the same experience too. She broke her pinkys falling off a hammock after an atempt to splint her pinky they ended up casting her hand hope your little girl gets well soon

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